如何尊重孩子的选择.docVIP

The child, is God gave us the best gift, from be born to them, they hand picking candy step by step slowly move into your hand, parents must be able to feel the joy and treasure. For the children, nature is infinite love, hate not give them all over the world. But when the children grow up with their own decisions and ideas, we should face? 1父母不是权利。尊重是一个人对另一个人平等的权利，没有因为任何原因而有不公平，所以当我们决定对孩子尊重的 时候，就要知道我们在孩子的面前不是一个仲裁者，而是引导者。父母不是一种可以来威胁孩子的岗位，也不拥有强迫 孩子的权利。 1 parents is not right. Respect is a person of another person equal rights, not because of any reason and unfair, so when we decide upon children respect,/catalog.asp?cate=3 want to know we in front of the children is not a mediator, but guide. Parents are not a threat to their jobs, also do not have forced the rights of the child. 2从主角上退下来。为什么这么说呢？很多人在做了父母后，会有很多遗憾想要从孩子身上补回来，很多人都在说，妈 妈以前没有做到，你一定要做到。爸爸以前没有考上，你要去考上。其实对于自己的没有完成的事情已经过去了，现在 孩子的人生里，主角是孩子，所以不要给它们包袱或者希望来完成我们没有完成的事情。 The 2 main characters from the down. Why do you say that? Lots of people do their parents, there will be a lot of regret to come back from the children,/catalog.asp?cate=4 a lot of people say that, my mother had not done, you must do it. Dad didnt pass the exams, youre going to get. In fact, for his unfinished things have passed, and now the childs life, the protagonist is a child, so dont give them the burden or hope to complete our unfinished business. 3做一个倾听者。从孩子咿咿呀呀学语，到孩子一字一句读书，再到后来和我们聊天说心事，似乎一晃就过了，孩子长 大了，有了自己的见解和主见，不是那个父母决定吃什么饭，穿什么衣服的小孩子以后，父母也要知道，要学会倾听孩 子的意愿，让他们能说，敢说，愿意说。这样，父母和孩子之间才是尊重和互信的一个关系，那么就会很少出现孩子的 叛逆。因为他们会觉得你们愿意听他的理由和解释。 3 to do a listener. Yayaxueyu from child to child Yi Yi, every single word or phrase book, then later and we chat say mind, seems to flow over, the children grow up, have their own views and ideas, not the parents decide what to eat a meal, what to wear in children, parents also need to know, to learn to listen to childrens wishes, let them say,/catalog.asp?ca