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过早与父母分离给中国孩子带来的伤害 How?would?Sainiya,?a?14-year-old?girl?from?the?Chinese?region?of?Inner?Mongolia,?cope?with?life?in?a?European?boarding?school??The?question?from?a?woman?working?in?admissions在招生?at?a?prestigious著名的?school?in?Ireland?provoked（v.激起( provoke）?incredulity?怀疑from?Sainiya’s?father,?He?Xiongfei,?a?Beijing?publisher. ‘‘She’s?been?in?boarding?school?since?she?was?3,’’?he?said,?as?if?that?settled?it.好像这儿样的回答解决了问题?But?did?it? Mr.?He?is?one?of?thousands?of?Chinese?parents?each?year?who?choose?an?overseas?education?for?their?children,?hoping?they?will?learn?world-class?skills?grounded（adj.接（好）地的;?）?with?liberal（adj.开明的;?自由的;）,?democratic（民主的）?values?价值观in?a?healthy?environment. He’s?also?one?of?millions?of?parents?who?have?sent?their?children?to?‘‘boarding?kindergartens,’’?托儿所a?tradition?传统that?began?after?the?1949?Communist?revolution共产党革命,?where?children?as?young?as?3只有三岁(occasionally?有时even?2)?live?at?school?during?the?week?—?sometimes,?but?not?always,?returning?home?for?the?weekend. Sainiya?appeared?to?do?fine表现的很好?during?the?year?she?spent?at?St.?Columba’s?College?—?except?for?the?food,?which?she?disliked.?But?the?jury（?舆论的裁决）?is?still?out:但是这个结论空恐怕还是不明确?Emotional?trauma情感创伤?can?be?harder?to?detect发觉?than?an?aversion厌恶?to?boiled?煮vegetables. In?China,?a?new?generation?of?young新一代的年轻人,?Western-trained?psychoanalysts?is?concerned?that?early?childhood?separation?from?parents?or?primary?caregivers照顾者,?considered?normal?here?for?generations,?has?caused?profound深刻,?hidden?trauma?in?millions?of?Chinese. They?believe?early?separation,?a?documented?psychological?phenomenon一种有文献记录的心里现象,?has?led?to?emotional?problems?in?adults?who?may?fail?to?form?healthy?relationships难以建立健康的关系.?Feeling?abandoned被遗弃的?as?children,?they?struggle?with?worthlessness?and?depression. Trying?to?help?fix?China’s?soul,?Liu?Yiling,?an?analyst?分析师?accredited?认可的with?the?International?Psychoanalytic?精神分析Association;?Dr.?Zhong?Jie?of?Peking?University;?and?Dr.?Wang?Xiao?of?theTavistock?Cen