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女性出轨的五大现实理由 5 Realistic Reasons Why Women Cheat As far as stereotypes go, a wandering eye and the urge to jump into bed with multiple partners seems to be built into a mans DNA, but when it comes to cheating, the sexes are created more equally than we think. (Cough, Kristen Stewart, cough.) Renee Lee, a relationship expert with a masters in psychology, dishes out five reasons why women cheat. 说到男性，大多数人都会觉得他们骨子里是欲望动物：眼神游离不定，还想要拥有多位性伴侣。但是，说到出轨，也许男女比我们想象得更加“平等”。（比如克里斯汀?斯图尔特）心理学硕士、两性关系专家蕾妮-李给出了以下5个女性出轨的理由。 1. Going Through A Transition 1、正在经历转变 If it is graduating, turning a certain age, losing a parent or advancing the relationship status, women become introspective, explains Lee. Even if it is something she wants, such as just getting engaged or graduating, the transition can stir up an array of emotions about where her life is going or where she is in it. The discomfort of change can trigger an impulsive desire to find someone to take her focus off the change and be a diversion for what she is going through. “如果正面临毕业，到了某个年纪，失去至亲或感情状态更进一步，女性会开始反思自己。”蕾妮解释道，“即使这些是她想要的，比如订婚或者毕业，但这些转变还是会在内心激起波澜，她们不禁会思考应该何去何从，或者她自身的状态。这些变化带来的不快会使人一时冲动去另寻他人来分散自己的注意力，让自己暂时逃避目前的处境。” 2. Not Feeling Adequately Celebrated 2、觉得不够被重视 Weve all been here: May it be getting a promotion, organizing a fundraiser, or making Thanksgiving dinner for a party of 20, men often make the misstep of not complimenting their partners achievements, Lee says. Women seek an emotional connection that their partner notices them, is proud of their achievements, and appreciates what they do, so when they arent getting this at home the residual effects lead to feelings of frustration, dissatisfaction, depression, and restlessness. 我们都有过这样的情况：“工作上得到晋升，组织了一次募捐活动，又或者给20人聚会准备感恩节晚餐，男性常忽略的一点是：没有好好赞扬妻子的成就。”蕾妮说，“女性总是希望她们的丈夫能给予她们更多关注，为她们的成就而自豪，并感谢她们的付出。所以，当她们在家里得不到这些情感需求时，她们会觉得受挫、不满、沮丧、不安。” And thats when they could go looking for it elsewhere. When you are living in the day to day with someone, it is challenging to step outside