对中师长教师心思指点的12种方法(国外英文资料).doc

对中学生心理辅导的12种方法(国外英文资料)The 12 methods of psychological counseling for middle school studentsA, listening toListening means that the consultant listens attentively and patiently to listen to the skills that the visitor speaks, including hearing and seeing. Ears and ears are heard from the ear, and the body language of the visitor is observed, and the voice of the visitor is heard. In conversations with visitors, the consultant mainly listens, not says. The consultant and the visitor are not teacher-student relations, but friends. The consultant should treat the visitors equally and warmly. This must be done. The distance between the consultant and the visitor at the right distance is a psychological distance, which should vary from person to person. When listening to a visitor, the consultant can neither keep his eye on the person nor look at them all the time. In the course of listening, the consultant had a short, brief encouragement to the other persons response, such as, well, is that the case? Etc., to say that you are paying attention to his speech. In listening to each others speech, the consultants own emotional and body language will also be adapted to the other. If the other person is happy, the consultant should be pleased. The other person is sad, the consultant wants to be heavy. When listening, the consultants body is slightly tilted forward and nods appropriately. In short, the key to listening is listening.Second, empathy,Empathy means to be able to experience the spiritual world of others, as if it were their own spiritual world, to understand and share the mental load of the visitors. I was so angry that I wanted to stab him to death with a knife and I didnt want to live, one visitor said of his public humiliation in his class. The consultant can say: in the circumstances of the day, your mood was understandable. Do you feel that this is hurting you too much?Three, cognitive method,The cognitive method also called the ABCDE theory, which refers to th