不可不看的哲理心理故事_(四)（I can not see the philosophy of psychology _ story (four)）.docVIP

不可不看的哲理心理故事_(四)（I can not see the philosophy of psychology _ story (four)） Can not see the story of psychological Philosophy One night, on a dark, lonely road, a young mans car pulled up: the car tyre exploded! The young man came down, rummaged through the toolbox, and did not find the jack. What should I do? The road never came by for a long time. He saw a light house far from home and decided to go to the house to borrow a jack. On the way, the young man kept thinking: If no one came to the door to do? If there is no Jack how to do? What if the guy has a jack and refuses to lend me the money? ...... Following this train of thought further, he grew more and more angry, he came to the house and knocked on the door, the owner just came out, he is torn into the person saying: fuck you, Jack what. Get master all at sea puzzled, thought to be a nervous patient, bang on the door shut. In such a way that young people into a common self failure thinking mode. After constantly negative, he actually has to borrow Jack lost confidence, certainly not to borrow, when they reached the door, he was unable to restrain the emotions shouting abuse. In our normal life, many people make a series of unfavorable assumptions about themselves, and they really put themselves in a disadvantageous position. Review: Doing something beforehand, do you often say to yourself in your mind: maybe not, if how, results may not have to do, you have no confidence, things will be moving in the direction you nine out of ten adverse thought development. So, the more you have the courage to make the decision, the more opportunities you will have to succeed. A friend has such a days experience: On that day, I stood in front of a jewelry store counter and put a bag with a few books beside it. In my choice of jewelry, a well-dressed, noble and dignified man also see past jewelry, I politely move my bag. But this man glared at me, told me he is an upright gentlemen, absolutely no intention of stealing my