孤独型人格（Lonely personality）.docVIP

孤独型人格（Lonely personality） Children: the fear of rejection to another mother is a constant emotional indifference of the mother. Maybe she didnt want children, children come to make her full of regret and Austria disappointed, she put the child as their own misfortune, or a wrong result. Maybe she will resent the nature of children, just as her mother as she disgusted. The mother of a child is cold in emotion, even less willing to embrace the child, scolding the child is homely food. Some mothers because of long-term emotional depression, the child is continuing indifference. The mother of the child called lonely children, they are often afraid of close contact, despite the fact that they also like other children need a mothers love, but every time the desire and requirement of mother attachment will lead to psychological distress, so baby naturally made a painful choice: avoidance all the intimate contact, and lead to a conclusion: there is no need for me. They dont often cry, seems very easy to meet, to give him what you like, do not require more, do not care whether others care about yourself, what seems to be no need. He constructed a real self, they seem very independent, is actually self denial to fear contact with others, its purpose is to avoid the possible pain. Such children are often considered to be a good boy, good boy, the independence of the mother for the child early show and proud, later in life, the children of this so-called independence may be subject to social approval, even he would be for his independent pride, but unhappy marriages are waiting for him. Adult personality: lonely lonely children if the growth environment remains unchanged, he in the psychological characteristics of childhood with his growth and become the basic characteristics of his personality, become a kind of in a relationship, especially in intimate relationships with avoidant personality. As in childhood, he denied his feelings and material needs. In fact he is not close t