要想不痛苦,唯有带着痛苦生活（If you want no pain, live only with pain）.docVIP

要想不痛苦,唯有带着痛苦生活（If you want no pain, live only with pain） If you want no pain, live only with pain Dont be silly, just drop it.. Or dont want to see. When I was heartbroken, my friend said the most words to you, Im afraid it was these two words. But the effect is often not so good. Some people continue to find someone to talk to, will still bear; and some people really want to put down, but not paid more. There are many similar problems, the meeting in the heart of the more we encourage themselves will feel more confident and relaxed, the more we think nervous; insomnia sleep soon more sleep; shy people more people suggest themselves to the performance of the results more generous, stiff and so on and so on, this is not the only one. Why are these emotional and life pains so tangled? We encountered, then find a bosom friend talk, incidentally found solace, joy, confidence and courage, but why, after soon, we will again because of a song, a leaf, a sunset, a movie, a scene, a dish, and again choke. In the midst of pain vortex? Why do we experience a similar situation next time, and we feel uneasy and panicky, and then blame ourselves for being stupid? Next, I borrow my own experience and talk about how a person can live a confident and happy life. If you can understand that after reading this article is meaningless, then you have gradually attained nirvana. 1., self-confidence is only a cumulative result. We often fall into a misunderstanding, that is, self-confidence is the result of strong will. People will cite many examples, such as Zhu Geliang, such as Napoleon, but even Zhu Geliang kongchengji, which is based on experience rush into danger judgment, he determined, but I want to sit in the tower top is not without a trace of panic. In fact, confidence can only be self energy experience, of course, with unreasonable demands and defiant is no real confidence. Confidence is not innate. We feel that a person is confident, but in fact, it is created by the environment