Dear Dad, Youre Doing It Al Wrong 亲爱爸爸,你全都做错了.docVIP

Dear Dad, Youre Doing It All Wrong 亲爱的爸爸,你全都做错了 　　也许有时候爸爸太过急躁，也许有时候爸爸太过强硬，也许有时候爸爸太过笨拙，也许有时候爸爸太过……也许，还有许多地方爸爸做得并不够好。但是，透过下面这封爸爸的自责信，你或许会发现爸爸有一点确信无疑做得够好，那就是――他爱我们，从不曾改变，从不会改变。 中国论文网 /9/viewhtm　　亲爱的爸爸： 　　Youre doing it all wrong. 　　Eleven years ago， the doctors handed you a little， pink bundle of vulnerability1）. You were 26 years old， and you walked out of the hospital entirely responsible for a brand new human being. A whole person. As if that were a totally sane thing to let you do. It scared you. They eventually handed you two more little people. It was supposed to get a little easier each time. 　　It didnt. 　　You never got less afraid. You never got more certain about how to be a dad. So you decided to make it up along the way. You can stop feeling bad about that―its what everybody else is doing， too. The problem is， you improvised2） by listening to the voices in the world around you， instead of listening to the voice coming from the world within you. You can forgive yourself for that， too. The voices around you are loud and persuasive. 　　They told you achievement matters most. So you stressed about school districts and kindergarten homework and guitar recitals3）. You secretly kept score in your head at first grade soccer games. You thought scoring goals was the goal of life. 　　But can you remember？ 　　Can you remember what it was like to be just a few years out of diapers4） and to score a goal on the soccer field？ You didnt care about the score and you didnt start planning for your future soccer scholarship. No， you whipped5） your head around to be sure they were looking. The real goal was to be seen. The real goal was to have someone to celebrate with. 　　Dad， you can stop spending all your time trying to get them into school， and you can start taking the time to walk them to school. 　　They told you good parents give their kids great experiences. So you turned yourself into an event planner and an amateur chauffeur6）. You signed them up for camps， sample