2026届高三英语培优 外刊阅读学案 聊天总是聊自己的人，是什么心理？.docxVIP

高三英语培优外刊阅读

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外刊精选｜聊天总是聊自己的人，是什么心理？

春节长假已经结束了，这个假期里，你一定有很多幸福的回忆，也难免有一些不那么痛快的经历，比如和某位亲戚或者某位童年旧友的“尬聊”。其实很多时候，“尬聊”并不是因为我们缺乏聊天技巧，而是因为对方是一位“回旋镖式提问者”。“回旋镖式提问”（boomerasking）有怎样的特点？为什么这样的聊天方式特别伤人？

BoomeraskingIsaBig,Self-CenteredFoulinConversation

Doesthisscenariosoundfamiliar?Acolleagueapproachesandasks,Hey,whatareyouuptothisweekend?Youtellheryourenotsure,butnothingbig.Shereplieswithherownvividplans.Imgoingtomylakehouse,andwerehavingamassivebonfire.

Whatseemedlikeagenuineexpressionofinterestinyousuddenlyshiftsandbecomesachanceforyourcolleaguetobrag,complainorsimplyshareaboutherself.Icallthistacticboomerasking,andithappensconstantly.Liketheloopingarcofaboomerang,boomeraskersaskaquestion,lettheircounterpartanswerandthenimmediatelybringthefocusoftheconversationbacktothemselves.

Formanypeople,self-disclosuresimplyfeelsgreat.Still,mostofusaresensitivetothefactthatwecantjustwalkaroundbraggingandcomplainingandtalkingaboutourselvesallthetime.Weattempttosolvethisconundrumwithaconstellationofindirecthabits.Butamongallthesubtleandobviouswaysweattempttomaskourself-centeredness,boomeraskingmightbetheworst.

Failingtofollowuponyourpartnersanswer,andansweringthequestionyourselfinstead,makesothersfeellikeyoudontcareaboutthem—andprobablydidntcareaboutthemwhenyouaskedthequestiontobeginwith.

Sodontboomerask!Whilesharingaboutyourselffeelsgoodandcanbringuscloser,whenanotherpersonsharestheirperspective,focusonthem.

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3.self-disclosuren.________________________________

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