试论当代社会中爱情与婚姻关系的价值取向_王耀平.pdf

DOI:10.14018/j.cnki.cn13-1085/n.2013.18.097 Value Engineering ·307 · 试论当代社会中爱情与婚姻关系的价值取向 Discussion on the Contemporary Social Value Orientation Relationship of Love and Marriage 王耀平 WANG Yao-ping （西安文理学院，西安710065） （Xian University of Arts and Science ，Xian 710065 ，China） 摘要： 爱情与婚姻之间的关系，是人们长久以来乐此不疲争论不休的话题。虽然各方学者和专家不断提出自己的看法与认识，但 是，在现实生活中人们总是很难理清两者之间的关系。尤其在当今社会，二者之间的矛盾日显突出，价值扭曲，取向错乱，社会现实中 常常出现有关爱情与婚姻背道而驰的现象。那么，如何妥善处理协调两者之间的关系，以期能够适应当代社会新的爱情婚姻价值观， 使两者之间互补生辉，和谐相处，就成了一个迫切需要解决的现实的问题。 Abstract: The relationship between love and marriage, is that people have long tired debate topics. Although scholars and experts put forward their views and knowledge, but in real life people will always be difficult to untangle the relationship between the two. Especially in the current society, increasingly highlighted the contradiction between the two, and value distortions, orientation disorders, runs counter to the social reality is often about love and marriage. So, how to properly handle the coordination of relations between the two, in order to be able to adapt to the new values of love and marriage in contemporary society, the complementarity between the two bright, harmony, has become an urgent need to address the real problem. 关键词： 爱情；婚姻；关系；价值 Key words: love ；marriage ；relationship ；value 中图分类号： 文献标识码： 文章编号： D669.1 A 1006-4311 （2013）18-0307-03 0 引言 姻，没有永恒的爱情。因此，在价值多元化的当代社会，我 爱情与婚姻之间的