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攻心说服力(国外英语资料) Persuasive 1 abstract: ?? Chapter 1: how do you gain an edge in a moment ????? In four minutes gives off your greatest charm ???? First of all, I want to ask readers a question: how long does it take to make a first impression on a person who first met? After about an hour? 1 day? Or a month? ???? Unfortunately, all of these answers are wrong. According to psychological research, it takes only four minutes to form a first impression. In the first four minutes, the first impression of a person can be formed, says American psychologist zini. ???? Even experts believe that the four minutes are too long, and the first impression will only take six seconds (amba and luchytaru, 1993). Some researchers even think 0.1 second is enough (laucha et al., 1993). ???? But, in a few seconds to form is love or hate general impression, and the formation of a clear, complete the first impression still need about 4 minutes. Four minutes is a short time, but if you cant show your biggest charm in four minutes, the impression is fixed. ???? If you cant make the other person feel good about your first meeting in four minutes, its hard to change your impression of you. Dr Lu Ann DaSong aston university of nai force through mock interviews, experiments show that in the first 4 minutes, the interviewer will clearly make a judgment, if the candidate can be employed. ???? Please recall your own situation. When you first meet your closest friends, you suddenly feel that this person will be the friend of my life. The feeling was almost as if it had been given a hint, and that was the power of the first impression. ???? Most people are nervous when they first meet someone. Because I dont know what kind of person is in front of me. It is not easy to try to defuse the tension and show your greatest charm in a limited four minutes. ???? When you first meet, you cant take it lightly for a second. Especially in the first four minutes, be sure to show your greatest charm. It would be a m