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Section A Lead-in activities  IQ is short for “intelligence quotient”, a measure of a person’s intellectual ability. Einsteins IQ is around 200 ! IQ questions (T/F) 1. Nine chickens, two dogs, and three cats have a total of forty legs. 2.A pie can be cut into more than seven pieces by making only four diameter cuts through its center. 3. The word, mineral, can be spelled using only the letters found in the word, parliament. 4. This sequence of four words, triangle, glove, clock, bicycle, corresponds to this sequence of numbers 3, 5, 12, 2. 5. If Richard looks into a mirror and touches his left ear with his right hand, Richards image seems to touch its right ear with its left hand.  EQ Emotional intelligence is a different way of being smart. It matters immensely —— in marriage and families, in career, for health and happiness. Aristotle spoke of the rare ability to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way. The best seller in 1995 Test your EQ (yes or no) Do you recognize your feelings and emotions as they happen? Are you aware of how you speak to yourself? Can you put yourself in a good mood? Are you persistent? Do setbacks set you back? Are you a good listener? Do you frequently praise people? Are you comfortable with your feelings? If your answer is “yes”, you have pretty high EQ!  How to improve my EQ ??? Main Idea: Four Adaptive Skills: Set aside time each day and imagine with passion, with your eyes closed, about ______________________. 3. considering and reconsidering events to choose the most creative response to them When something important happens, ______________________________________________, even crazy ones. Then go with the interpretation most supportive of your dreams. Learning to incorporate others’ useful perspectives is __________________________ ___________________________. When some one interprets something differently, cons