婆媳关系the relationship between motherinlaw and daughterinlaw概要1.ppt

The Relationship between Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law ? One of the Most Difficult Relationships to Handle in this World! As we know, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is Contents TV plays Importance Why so difficult: worries, uncertainty, conflict Solutions Good luck We have known it from many TV plays 我的野蛮婆婆 媳妇儿的美好时代 双面胶 麻辣婆媳 TV Plays Few family relationships are more fraught than the ones between a mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, and the man caught between them. It has been fodder for comedy in movies and on TV forever, yet each generation seems to have to learn for itself how to make this triangle work. Importance Why the relationship is so difficult to handle? The mothers also reported worrying about their son’s well-being and whether marriage and his wife would change him. Some of their specific concerns: Of course, daughters-in-law have their concerns about the woman who raised their husbands. Worries From a research, mother really do worry more when sons marry than when daughters marry. When a son married, mothers reported more uncertainty and insecurity. The insecurity centered on the son’s relationship with his parents and unclear family. Daughter-in-law Is my mother-in-law getting too involved in my life? What is her ability to take financial care of herself? What does she say about me when I am not around? Will?he?visit?or?call?less?often? Will he spend holidays with the family? He’s no longer reliable, due to his wife’s interference. His interests have changed dramatically. Is he eating enough? My daughter-in-law is a bad cook. Is?he?happy? Mother-in-law Dislike and expect to be meddlesome(少管闲事的). defensive and become distant. So a daughter-in-law doesn’t like a mother-in-law and expect her to be meddlesome(少管闲事的). As a result, the two women may tread carefully around each other from the start, reaching defensively and eventually becoming distant. Uncertainty In a way, both mother and wife are competing to n