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The Top 10 Relationship Questions, Answered! 恋爱中的十大问题 Question 1. Are they interested in me? 问题1 他们对我感兴趣吗？ Hmm, there really is ONLY one way to find out if someone is interested in you, I think youll agree, and it isnt asking me or a friend or even a friend of the person youre interested in. Ask the person directly, and find out for yourself! 实际上只有一种方法知道某个人是否对你有兴趣，我想你也会同意这个方法，那就是直接问那个人，自己找出答案，而不是问我，问朋友，或者问你感兴趣的那个人的朋友。 The thing about relationships is that they have to involve some element of risk for them to be worthwhile being involved with. Thats just how it works. And that risk is quite often evident at the beginning of a relationship. 一段恋情总得有值得投入进去的冒险因素。道理不过如此。并且那一点风险也是在恋爱初期显而易见的。 Oh no!, you think to yourself, I asked her out and shes just not interested in me! What will I do? Youll live, thats what youll do, and youll start to feel stronger in who you are as a man or as a woman because you act on your convictions. “噢，不！”你对自己说，“我约她出去，但是她对我不感兴趣！我该怎么办？”你该继续生活，这就是你该做的事。你会觉得自己内心开始强大起来，不论你是男是女，因为你忠于你的信念。 Question 2. Why wont they commit to me? 问题2 他们为什么不对我做出承诺？ It is said that men are commitment-phobes, and maybe they are in comparison to women who knows. But, usually, when someone doesnt want to commit to a person, or a course of action, its because theyre not sure its the right thing to do. Its that simple. Now the reason why theyre not sure, that might take some finding out, and is beyond the scope of this relationship questions article, but you will be able to find out via good communication. 据说男人都害怕做出承诺，或许只是他们比不上深谙承诺的女人。但是通常一个人不想对另一个人做出承诺，或者对另外一件事情做出承诺，是因为他们不确定那是一件该做的事。就是这么简单。而他们不确定的原因可能要花点时间才能找出来，也可能已经超过了这篇讨论恋情问题的文章的范畴，但是你们能够通过良好的沟通来找到答案。 So talk to this person, and see what their concerns are. Listen, but listen well, and learn. 所以和这个人谈谈，看看他们的顾虑到底是什么。听，认真听，并且领会。 Time for another quote about relationships, I think: 我想再和大家分享一句关于恋情的话： When women hold off from marrying men, we call it independence. When men hold off from marrying women, we call it fear of commit