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开口说话的四大要素（The four elements of speaking） The four elements of speaking The four realm of speaking makes conversation become an art, but it is also a subject. The most basic thing about knowledge is to know what to say, what to say, what to say, and what to say. This seems simple, but it is not so easy to do, then how to grasp the skills? In fact, speak and write novels in general, should pay attention to the time and place, characters and events of the four elements, said more fine point, is to pay attention to the time, talking, talking on occasions like, the way of speaking and propriety. Pay attention to these four points, and you can often achieve unexpected results. First, the timing of the speech The ancients said: the mountain is not high, there is an immortal name; the water is not deep, there are Long Zeling.. The same is true of words, words are not many, the time must be right. He is the man who speaks best when he speaks the right thing at the best time. Otherwise, if the timing of the conversation is not good, on the contrary, it will bring you negative results. This is probably the case with Yang Xiuzhis death in the romance of the three kingdoms. Yang Xiu Cao Cao as close to a direct participation in the priority, all the tents all the secrets of March secretaries in an emergency war defeat, no fancy cover, from the chicken ribs password at random jump to guess, and in the army wantonly spreads negative remarks, and end up by Cao Cao as a disorderly my morale crime of death. Yang Xiukong has a chance to talk but because the true skill and genuine knowledge, wrong, and provoke fatal disaster. So, when is the best time to speak? For example, when is the best opportunity to speak in a discussion? If you speak first, although it can cause the impression to the audience First impressions are strongest, but the general situation is, because the time is premature, the atmosphere is dull, the audience has not adapt, not too good to mobilize their emotions. Bu