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LIUDS 2090361 Every person is capable of great love. While there are many different ways to define love and there many different ways to love someone. Here a general guide to loving. 1 Say it. When you say the words “I love you they ” they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it ,make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person. 2 Empathize Put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are . Realize how they could also love you back just as well 3 Love unconditionally If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it not love at all. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves , and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally 3 4 Expect nothing in return That doesn’t mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love do not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way. 5 Realize it can be lost If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don’t make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them. 6 Never stop loving Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love. Warnings You must love yourself before you can love another Don’t ask for love. You should receive love because you partner wants to give you love. Do not force love. There is always the risk of