TED演讲-带标注那些限制你的执念 是你不幸之源.docxVIP

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是你不幸之源

题?：don’tbelieveeverythingyouthink

作者:LaurenWeinstin

Thiselephanthasincrediblestrength.Shecanuprootatreewithhertrunkalone.Yetshewillremainincaptivity,heldbyonlyalightrope.Despiteherabilitytoeasilybreakaway,shedoesnteventry.Why?

这只?象有很不可思议的??，它只?象?就能把树连根拔起。但它却仍然被?条细绳给囚禁着。尽管它有能?可以轻易挣脱，它却试也不试。为什么？

Itstartswhensheisyoung.Sheisfirsttieddownwhensheissmallandnotyetstrongenoughtobreaktherope.Shelltryatfirst,tryashardasshecantobreakfree,andtryandtry,buteventuallyrealizeshecant.Suddenly,somethingattachesitselftoherthatisstrongerthananyropeorchainorfence.Itsthebeliefthatshecantbreakfree.Itsthisbeliefthatholdsherback-despiteherability.

这要从它年轻时说起。它很?时就被绑住，当时的??还不?以扯断绳?。?开始它会尝试，尽?去挣脱，?试再试，最终，它了解到??办不到。突然间，某种?绳?、铁链、栅栏都还要强的东西跟它紧系在?起了。就是相信???法挣脱的执念。是这种执念限制了它——尽管它有能?。

Ivehadthesesamebeliefs-youmayhavetoo-beliefsthatheldmeback,beliefsthatledmetofeelunfulfilledinmywork,tostruggleinmyrelationshipsandtolivealifethatwasfarfromtheoneIamlivingnow.

我也有类似的执念——你们可能也有——这些执念限制了我，这些执念让我在?作上不得志，在?际关系中挣扎，且过着和现在相去甚远的?活。

uproot

v.连根拔起

trunk

n.树?；象?

captivity

n.囚禁；困住

break

breakaway

挣脱

将A附加到B

fence

n.栅栏；障碍物

u

unfulfilled

adj.壮志未满的；未满?的

pullagainstItwasonlywhenIbecameawareofmyropes

pullagainst

pulledagainstthemthatIfoundmyselfinadifferentreality.

对抗Howdoyoubreaktheropesthattieyoudown?Dont

对抗

everythingyouthink.

直到我意识到束缚我的那些绳?，并主动去对抗它们，我才发现了?个不同的现实。你要如何挣脱绑住你的绳?？别尽信你所有的想法。

babysitter保姆doortodoor挨家挨户WhenIwassixyearsold,Ihadafavoritebabysitter,Amber.Onemorning,mymothertoldmewecouldnthaveherbabysitbecauseshedidnthaveenoughmoneytopayher.Sothatafternoon,Istartedmyfirstcompany.Igatheredrocksfromaroundtheneighb