2014届最新高考英语一轮单元复习 精品阅读理解提升文章精选一百篇五六.docVIP

2014届最新高考英语一轮单元复习 精品阅读理解提升文章精选一百篇（56） Unit 59　　Four Rules for a Successful Marriage　　Couples usually ask for advice when they are just about ready to throw in the towel. Their Love Banks have been losing love units so long that they are now deeply in the red. And their negative Love Bank accounts makes them feel very uncomfortable just being in the same room with each other. To be in love again means they must re-deposit all of the love units that were withdrawn. In order to deposit enough love units to fall in love, they must follow rules that they dont feel like following.　　The Rule of Care: Meet Your Spouses Most Important Emotional Needs　　Even when the feeling of love begins to fade, or when its gone entirely, it can be recovered when ever you both go back to being an expert at knowing each others needs and learn to meet those needs in a way that is fulfilling to your spouse, and enjoyable for you, too.　　The Rule of Protection: Avoid Being the Cause of Your Spouses Unhappiness　　Its pointless to deposit love units if you withdraw them right away. So in addition to meeting important emotional needs, you must be sure to protect the Love Bank from withdrawals by paying attention to ow your everyday behavior makes each other unhappy. You and your spouse were born to be angry, disrespectful, demanding, annoy and dishonest. These are normal human traits that I call Love Busters because they destroy affection. To eliminate them, you will do whatever it takes to overcome these destructive tendencies for your spouses protection.　　The Rule of Honesty　　Reveal to your spouse as much information about yourself as you know -- your thoughts, feelings, habits, likes, dislikes, personal history, daily activities, and plans for the future. Honesty and Openness can trigger the feeling of love. But its counterpart, dishonesty, is one of the most destructive Love Busters. Besides, honesty is the only way couples will come to understand each other. To avoid conflict, they som