第十章 人际吸引与爱情.ppt

Chapter 10 Interpersonal Attraction 人际吸引 Outlines Social Needs Basic principles of Attraction Proximity: Liking Those Nearby Familiarity: Liking Those We See Often Similarity: Liking People Like Us Desirable Personal Attributes: Warmth and Competence Physical Attractiveness Mate Selection Love Adult Romantic Attachment Social Needs 很多人大约四分之三的时间都是和他人在一起Around the world and across age-groups, most people spend about 3/4s of their time with other people. 人们为什么如此需要与他人相伴？ 寻求关系（affiliation）的需要，也就是需要与他人相伴的倾向 Stanley Schachter’ study, 1959 人们希望与特定的个体形成持久的关系。他人仅仅在场并不足够，我们希望与关心我们的人之间存在着紧密的纽带。People wan