爱情持久弥新的7个小秘密.docxVIP

让一段感情保持最初的温馨、爱恋和亲密的，并不是钻石或鲜花，而是生活中的小细节。 1.Praise your partner for the little things 赞美对方 If theres something you appreciate about your partner, from the way he or she makes scrambled eggs to how hard he or she is working on decorating the bedroom, speak up. Praise provides a reminder of your love. 如果有一些小事让你很欣赏你的另一半，不管是他/她炒鸡蛋做得很好吃，还是他/她很辛苦地装饰卧室，都记得要说出来。赞美是爱情的表达方式。 2．Be thoughtful 要体贴 The good we do tends to come back to us. When youre thoughtful to your partner, he or shes more inclined to be thoughtful in return. So remember to buy each others favourite dessert, cut out or email articles you think your partner might like, or take on the others jobs like arranging for your partner to have a day off, with no housework or expectations. 我们的善举总是会有所回报。如果你对你的伴侣体贴照顾，他/她也会用体贴入微来回报你，所以要记得买对方最爱吃的甜点，把对方可能爱看的文章剪下来或者电邮过去，帮他/她安排一天没有家务轻松自在的假期休息下。 3. Keep your promises 坚守承诺 Failing to keep your word can destroy the unity and trust in a relationship. Its better to say Let me think about it than to say youll do something but fail to deliver. 不守承诺会毁了一段感情的和睦和信任。所以最好常说“让我想一想”，而不是夸下海口却没办法实现诺言。 ? 4.Share your passions 分享热情 Take turns choosing an arts or cultural event to attend together each month. The point is to show your partner what you love, so that he or she can experience it as you do (or close enough). To make this work, both of you have to be flexible: someone might have to attend a football match or the theatre. The reward lies in experiencing each others passion. And who knows – you may have a lot more fun than you ever imagined. 每月轮流选择并一起参加一项艺术或者文化活动。这么做，是向你的爱人展示你的爱好，这样他/她也可以和你一起经历（或者近距离感受）。想要做好这一点，你们俩都必须很宽容并愿意配合：可能有人得去看足球比赛或者去剧院。这样做的好处是可以体会对方到某些事物的热爱之情。而且说不定，你会发现其中的乐趣比你想象得要多得多！ 5. Kiss under a full moon 在月夜下亲吻 On a fine evening, spread a blanket under the night sky and drink in the beauty and quiet of your surroundings together. You can talk if you wish, or simply savour the silence and the experience of being together, side-by-side, under the stars. 找个天气不错的晚上，在夜空下铺条毯子，在美丽安静的环