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成年人交朋友的5个贴士 5 tips for making new friends as an adult Can you really make new friends as an adult? I mean, theres plenty advice out there on how to help kids make friends. But if you dont have friends by the time youre an adult, it seems the world hands you a dunce cap and shows you to the corner. 作为一个成年人，你真的能够结交新朋友吗？我是说，小孩可以获得各种交友建议。但是如果成年了的你还没有任何朋友，似乎是这世界给了你一顶傻瓜帽，然后你戴着它站在墙角。 After all, many adults have all the friends they need or want, right? People get married, have kids and have little time for others outside their family. Doesnt that make it harder to meet new people after a certain age? 毕竟，大多的成年人都会有他们需要或者想要的朋友，对吧？人们结婚，生子，没有时间出去交际应酬。如此一来在到了某个年龄段交友是不是变得越来越难？ Well, yes and no. Depending on your geographic location, yes, many people “settle down” after a certain age. But not everyone. And while it may take a little more time to “warm up” a new friend as an adult, it can certainly be done. 当然，是与否。取决于你的地理位置，若是，因为大多数人到了某个年纪都会安定下来。但并非每个人都会那样。也许成年人需要多花点时间去熟络新朋友，最后肯定会成功。 In fact, many of the techniques kids instinctively use to make friends on the playground work for ages 4 thru 104. So here are 5 habits of highly social children that can help you make friends even if youre way past your school days. 事实上，小孩在运动场上惯用的交友技巧普遍适用于4岁-104岁的人。所以，下面善于交际的小孩的5个习惯能够帮助你去结识朋友，即使你已经告别学生时代。 1.LEVERAGE CURRENT SOCIAL ASSETS 1.充分利用现有的社会资源 I remember back in Kindergarten (before I got awkward), I would make friends through other friends. One buddy might have a birthday party where Id meet other kids. Some would become new friends. Its not quite as easy as an adult, but the same principle applies. First ask yourself, who are you already around on a normal basis? This might include: 我还记得在幼稚园的时候（在交友技巧变拙劣前），我能够通过别人认识新朋友。某个伙伴开派对，我们就可以在派对上结交其他的小孩。其中一些就会成为朋友。这对成年人来说不怎么容易，但道理都一样。首先，问问你自己平常都跟谁在一块？可能包括： Then, be aware of invites from these “social assets” and say yes to birthday parties, reunions, holiday events, after work drinks, company picnics, etc. At these events, youll likely meet new people