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Complimenting behavior in America and Chinaexample男：啊！你看起来好漂亮，好年轻啊！女（娇羞，手足无措）： …你说什么啊！别拿我开玩笑了！男：我木有啊！我说的是真话啊！女（有点相信，又不敢说这是事实）：别酱紫，大家都几十岁的人了！男：你别那么低调嘛！漂亮就是漂亮啊！这有什么！女：懒地理你啦！Target of Chinese complimentAppearance: among female , male to female男（迎面而来，自以为笑得玉树临风）：小姐你真漂亮！女（他谁啊？！流氓？闪身后撤）：你，你要干嘛？！Ability and achievements: superior and lower 组织上很看重你哟！领导我也对你有信心哟！Expression of Chinese complimentSecond person （第二人称）：你的房子真不错！Implicit compliment：你丈夫真有福气！我妈说你做饭好吃，果然如她所说啊。Response language of Chinese complimentDenialSelf-deprecating （自我否定）Disgrace oneself to honor others甲：你读书好刻苦啊！乙：我这是笨鸟先飞，您才是真学霸！Chinese cultural influencesOthers-orientationFeudal Hierarchy systemComplimenting Behavior —AmericaCaseA: Bob, you really do a good job! Could you give us some advice about it?B:Thanks.(smile) I am glad that I can help.Different from Chinese, in the US , as a representative of the western culture, they consider more about the followings: The independent willThe ability of the personThe personal self expressionThe self-confidenceTarget of American compliment A serious judgment for one’s abilities and achievements Usually appear between the upper and lower levels people of different social statusJudge the work of their subordinates(下属)Expression of American complimentI think your coat suits you. (2) I like your hair style. (3) I am so proud of you. First person(第一人称)Personal feelingsCompliment Education of American101 encouragement words to encourage the children up: Way To Go 就该这么做Youre Special 你不一般I Knew You Could Do It 我知道你能做Im Proud of You 我为你而骄傲Youre On Top Of It 你是数一数二的Youre Catching On 你是有吸引力Modest or not?Just the matter of culture?Thank you ！