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Lesson 4检测题 第一部分 完形填空 阅读下面短文，掌握其大意，然后从1-20各题所给的四个选项（A、B、C和D）中，选出最佳选项。 I think that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most 1 thing we ever give to each other is our attention (注意力). Especially if it’s 2 from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do 3 but receive them. Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times 4 about it is even more important than understanding it. One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often 5 to tell her that they once had something just 6 that happened to her. Her pain became a story about 7. So, finally she stopped 8 to most people because she just felt too lonely. When we interrupt what someone is 9 to let them know that we understand, we 10 the focus of attention to ourselves. But if we just 11, they know we care. Many people with cancer can talk about the relief (宽慰) of having someone just listen. I have 12 learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. I 13 that passing a person a tissue (面巾纸) may be just another 14 to shut them down and take them out of their experience of 15. Now I just listen. When they have 16 all they need to cry, they find me there with them. This 17 thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very 18. I thought people listened only 19 they were too shy to speak or did not know the 20. A loving silence often has far more power to heal than words. 1. A. easy B. important C. stupid D. terrible 2. A. used B. lost C. got D. given 3. A. anything B. everything C. something D. nothing 4. A. worrying B. complaining C. caring D. dreaming 5. A. decided B. managed C. preferred D. interrupted 6. A. by B. like C. about D. with 7. A. themselves B. ourselves C. himself D. yourself 8. A. working B. studying