友谊和爱情：一条可靠的途径(20130918最新修改).docVIP

PAGE  PAGE 26  TOC \o 1-3 \h \z \u  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161246 Friendship and love: a reliable approach  PAGEREF _Toc368161246 \h 1  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161247 友谊和爱情：一条可靠的途径  PAGEREF _Toc368161247 \h 1  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161248 What leads to friendship and attraction?  PAGEREF _Toc368161248 \h 1  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161249 Proximity接近  PAGEREF _Toc368161249 \h 3  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161250 Rewards回报  PAGEREF _Toc368161250 \h 3  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161251 Physical Attractiveness外表吸引力  PAGEREF _Toc368161251 \h 5  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161252 Similarity相似  PAGEREF _Toc368161252 \h 9  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161253 社会特征  PAGEREF _Toc368161253 \h 14  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161254 择偶标准的权衡  PAGEREF _Toc368161254 \h 14  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161255 Summary总结  PAGEREF _Toc368161255 \h 14  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161256 What is love?  PAGEREF _Toc368161256 \h 14  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161257 Who are you attracted to? 你爱谁？  PAGEREF _Toc368161257 \h 14  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161258 What type of love would you like to? 你想要什么样的爱情？  PAGEREF _Toc368161258 \h 19  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161259 How do close relationships end? 爱情如何走向坟墓？  PAGEREF _Toc368161259 \h 23  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161260 When is divorce less likely?  PAGEREF _Toc368161260 \h 23  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161261 人们对痛苦婚姻关系的反应  PAGEREF _Toc368161261 \h 24  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161262 The Detachment Process分手的过程  PAGEREF _Toc368161262 \h 24  HYPERLINK \l _Toc368161263 References参考文献  PAGEREF _Toc368161263 \h 25 Friendship and love: a reliable approach 友谊和爱情：一条可靠的途径 书 男 初 稿：11-24-2011 最新修改：09-18-2013 What leads to friendship and attraction? Where are you? Why do we need friendship and love? We are social animals and we have a need to belong. When we feel supported by close, intimate relationships, we tend to be healthier and happier. People (especially women) respond to ostracism with depressed mood, anxiety, hurt feelings, e