文化影响人的思维方式 积极的思维方式如何影响人？.docVIP

文化影响人的思维方式 积极的思维方式如何影响人？ 我真的希望当我每次听到某些人说出关于我，关于别人，甚至关于他们自己的消极言论的时候，我都能得到一枚硬币。尤其是当最后一种情况出现的时候，这样的话我就可以依靠这些收入退休了！ I wish I had a dime for every time I heard someone making a negative comment about me, about others, about themselves. That last is really the worst. I could retire on those dimes. 事实却是，生活对于我们大多数人而言，本可以更好。只要我们找到我们的消极的思维习惯，取而代之以积极的思考方式。 The thing is, life could be so much better for many people, if they would just spot their negative thinking habits and replace them with positive ones. 消极思维，在它所有的表现形式中，有一种方式就是蔓延进入我们的交流和思考当中，而我们自己却对此毫无察觉。依我个人浅薄的观点认为，成功的关键在于发现你大脑当中的消极思想，然后把他们像小虫一样从你的大脑中去除。然后，用积极的思考方式进行取代原来的思维方式。你就会在你做的事情当中发现巨大的不同。 Negative thinking, in all its many-splendored forms, has a way of creeping into conversations and our thinking without our noticing them. The key to success, in my humble opinion, is learning to spot these thoughts and squash them like little bugs. Then replace them with positive ones. You’ll notice a huge difference in everything you do. 就像达赖喇嘛所说的那样：“克服消极思维和破坏性情绪的最好的办法就是加强提升它的相反情绪，使积极情绪变得更强大，更有力”。 As the Dalai Lama said, “The way to overcome negative thoughts and destructive emotions is to develop opposing, positive emotions that are stronger and more powerful.” 让我们来一起看一看消极思维常见的几种表现形式（当然远不止这些），这样我就可以很容易的发现消极思维的模式，然后就可以练习用积极的思维模式取代它们。这种方式已经对我的个人世界产生了深远的影响。 Lets take a look at 10 common ways that negative thinking emerges (there are many more, of course) — get good at spotting these patterns, and practice replacing them with positive thinking patterns. It has made all the difference in the world for me. 10种致命的消极思维（10Deadly Sins of Negative Thinking） 1、一旦我拥有了_____，我就会变得很快乐！（或一旦我挣到足够多的钱） 1. I will be happy once I have _____ (or once I earn $X). 问题：如果你认为只有你达到了一定的目标、赚到了一定数量的的钱或者购置了某种样式的房子、车子、电脑之后你才会变得快乐，那么，你永远都不会感到快乐。因为，难以捉摸的目标永远都无法触及，就算我们达到了目标，我们也不会满足，我们会要求的更多，没有止境。 Problem:If you think you cant be happy until you reach a certain point, or until you reach a certain income, or have a certain type of house or car or computer setup, you’ll