双语阅读：求爱过程越长 感情质量越高.docVIP

双语阅读：求爱过程越长 感情质量越高 2010年08月24日09:26英语点津陈丹妮我要评论(0) 字号：T|T A couple embraces as a subway train arrives in the station in New York May 24, 2010. Couples who get to know each other before being intimate have a better chance of having a lasting relationship, but in some cases even a casual?flingcan lead to true love, according to a new research. Most of the 56 percent of 642 adults questioned in the study who said they had waited until they got serious before they had sex reported having a high quality relationship. The number was higher than for the 27 percent of people who had sex while dating casually and the 17 percent who were intimate while in a non-romantic relationship. Theres something about the characteristics of people who wait before sex that is linked to higher-quality relationships, said sociology professor Anthony Paik of the University of Iowa. Paik, who reported the findings in the journal Social Science Research, said the research suggests that the courtship process acts as a screening mechanism. The debate is why cant we have sex now? The expectation is that sex should occur very quickly. But doing so, youre?losing out onsome information that might be useful, he explained in an interview. Its almost an economic equation, he added. On average, the more costly the process leading into the relationship, the more likely it is to work. Thats what the data would suggest. But Paik said the findings did not show that an early sexual relationship had a direct negative impact on relationships. When he filtered out people who said they had frequent non-romantic or casual dating sexual relationships he found that the gap in relationship quality between serious and nonserious contexts of sexual activity disappeared. It means its possible for two strangers to lock eyes in a bar, and go home together, and actually end up in a long-term relationship, Paik said. 一项最新调查表明，在确定亲密关系之前彼此互相了解的情侣感情更有可能长久，但在某些情况下，一夜情也能带来真爱。 在接受调查的642名成年人中，56%的人称他们在两人确立恋爱关系后才发生性关系，这其中的大部分人称自己的感