和睦教材 10个息灭孩子自负的方法（国外英文资料）.doc

反面教材 10个毁灭孩子自信的方法（国外英文资料） Antithesis: 10 ways to destroy your childs self-confidence Parents do everything for their children Too many Chinese parents, the childs diet care so much, spare time arrangement of learning programs for children, music, painting, dance, language... The parents want their children in the future have great expectations of the mood can understand, but this kind of intrusion methods, can make children become dependent on life, the passive in learning, the negative emotion. This is not conducive to the growth of children. The child must bear the responsibility of his life independently. Parental overprotection is a relentless strangulation of the childs creativity. A child has never done anything, but learning is never a genius. On the contrary, if parents since the childhood what all ready for your child, after the adult children in the group will feel useless, no confidence, no ability to get things done. Parents act in a frivolous way As James Baldwin said, children are never good at listening to their elders, but they never fail to imitate their behavior. Parents act as a living material for their children. Parents if their many disorderly behavior, linesmen, at ordinary times, vulgar words, used to tell tales, the child will think there is no respect between people is normal. Even if he makes sense, children will not learn to respect. Ignore the kids If parents when children early life not to hear the child, do not ignore children, ignore the existence of the child, the child will think this is normal behavior, is a state of normal relations between people, such children cannot build self-esteem. Us an orphanage organized a group of female college students in colleges and universities to the orphanage regularly to the orphans to duration must embrace the caress of physical contact, touch, etc. As a result, the orphans were more moderate each time they were caressed. The reason is that children are born with is the demand of the attention