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The art of saying no (tactfully) 拒绝的艺术 Dear Annie: I hope you dont think this is a dumb problem, but I need some advice on how to refuse when people ask me to do things that arent part of my job description, without being rude about it or burning any bridges. Over the past several years, Ive gradually become the go-to person in my department for more and more extra tasks. Im happy to help out, even though it usually means staying an extra hour or two in the evenings to get everything done. 亲爱的安妮： 当有人要求我去做不属于我份内的事情时，我该如何巧妙地拒绝，又不至于让自己看起来显得粗鲁无礼，同时又不会断了门路？希望您不会认为这是个愚蠢的问题，但我确实需要您的建议。过去几年，部门有额外的任