婚姻启示录(国外英语资料).doc

婚姻启示录(国外英语资料) Women are divorced after the age of 30, while remarriage may be only 60%; if the divorce is more than 40 years old, the rate of remarriage falls to 40%. Moreover, both men and women, remarriage crowd second divorce rate will reach more than 60%, far below the first visible marital satisfaction. According to a survey, only 30% of women choose to marry third times after her second divorce. These facts show that the result of many divorces will leave most women alone for the rest of their lives, so more and more psychologists are starting to explore the solutions to the marital crisis. They take various methods to help women facing a marital crisis save the marriage, especially for those with children of first lady. The paper focuses on the focal point of some knowledge women, and sums up 9 aspects, hoping to enlighten the readers. First, do not try to find the right and wrong side of marriage In daily life, there are many couples facing marital crisis complaining about each other, blaming each other for the intensification of the conflict, and trying to find the right and wrong of the marriage problem, and dissolve it and make up for it. In fact, in the psychological experts view, this search for right and wrong approach is not only futile, but also will expand the contradictions of marriage. The most common problem in marriage is that the public says that the public is right, and the husband says that the woman is right. In fact, there is no right and wrong in marriage, and everyones actions are responses to each other. If the action and speech of the other party are extreme, the response becomes a counterattack, repeated repeatedly into a vicious circle until the two sides are exhausted. Two, divorce hurts children far more than parents think According to marriage experts, now psychologists in the West are actively calling for families with children, can not divorce or leave. Because in the eyes of the children of parents like the sunrise and sunset a