GMAT阅读解析练习之How to Be a Better Spouse-智课教育.pdf

智 课 网 G M A T 备 考 资 料 GMAT阅读解析练习之How to Be a Better Spouse-智课教育 GMAT阅读最重要的就是要学会分析文章结构，理清文章脉络，把 握作者的逻辑态度，简而言之就是要不断提高自己的阅读能力。但提高 阅读能力不是一朝一夕就能实现的，为此，小编专门整理了一系列的G MAT阅读解析练习，之所以叫完美解析，是因为里面包含了文章结构， 题材分类，作者评价，难句解析……所有分析都淋漓尽致堪称完美，最 大程度满足学生需要。希望能帮助大家不断提高阅读能力，最终取得满 意的成绩。今天小编为大家整理的是关于How to Be a Better Spouse的完美解析，赶快学起来吧！ How to Be a Better Spouse 怎样成为更好的伴侣 Before you get married, everyone tells you that marriage takes work. Turns out you really cant just flip the switch to autopilot and trust love to take care of itself； you have to devote actual time and effort to understanding and appreciating your spouse. Anyone who is married knows thats not always a simple feat. Heres what relationship research (and a touch of game theory) tells us about how to become a better spouse. #1 Be nice as often as you can. A lot of modern relationship therapy is based on the research of John Gottman, a prolific psychologist famous for videotaping thousands of couples and dissecting their interactions into quantifiable data. One of his most concrete findings was that happier couples had a ratio of five positive interactions to every negative interaction. “That just leapt off the pages of the data analysis,” he says. It was true in very different types of relationships, including those in which the people were very independent and even distant or argumentative. These positive interactions dont have to be grand gestures: “A smile, a head nod, even just grunting to show youre listening to your partner—those are all positive,” Gottman says. #2 Think about what your partner needs, even when fighting. To resolve conflicts, Gottman says we can learn from game theory—the study of conflict and decision making used in political science, sociology and economics. It used to be widely accepted that negotiations were mostly zero-sum situations, meaning one partys gain w