受虐孩子的特征（The characteristics of a battered child）.docVIP

受虐孩子的特征（The characteristics of a battered child） The characteristics of a battered child Just as parents differ from each other, their children are different. What parents think of childrens problems is quite realistic. For example, a mothers illness during pregnancy, as well as a childs premature birth, dystocia, congenital malformations, and impaired production can not only shock parents hopes, but also increase the likelihood that parents will abuse their children. In addition, the childs gender, temperament, and even looks, and so on, will become the standard of parental expectations, resulting in a childs feelings of likes and dislikes. One mother said her daughters eyes were like her grandmother, who thought her daughter would grow up to be as mean and selfish as her mother-in-law. Since such a stereotype, every time a child cries, she thinks of the relationship between her husband and daughter-in-law, and puts her mother-in-laws grievances out of the child. Similarly, whether a childs temperament is consistent with the personality of a parent is an important factor in the childs preference for a parent. Children who are quiet, eat fast, and sleep well can almost make any parent happy. Psychologists have shown that childrens personalities may determine whether or not they accept the fate of their parents in the first few months of life. Most parents have that children should be lovely, can quickly to softly kiss, touch, go and talk to respond to, and sensible, well behaved and healthy. Once the child is born, parents do not agree with the imagination, parents will not see the eye, it is difficult to love. If the child was born with disease, or congenital defects, or long for love, or a little off the pump so idiotic, parent-child development is likely to deviate from the ideal track. (1) the emergence of stress The question of parenthood depends on the ability of parents to cope with problems. If you are bored when you hear the child crying, then the trouble w