从理解到自由（From understanding to freedom）.doc

从理解到自由（From understanding to freedom） From understanding to freedom -- from Sun Ruixues love and freedom It is generally agreed that love should be given to children as much as possible to make them fully enjoy it, which has had an impact on his life. Its easy to say, and its not easy to really do it. Things are always like this. Things of principle, abstractions, things of life, concrete things are not easy to do. We should even say that we dont usually have enough time for our children. Because we are busy, time is not enough, everything is in front of the children. Not with the children, not with the children reading, communication, do not work with children, to appreciate what children need to appreciate, to listen to the voice and feelings of children. When children are with us, we may not understand the children to a large extent. Its not easy to understand a child. Because it is necessary to understand the childs psychological state, especially to understand the childs development. The hen is very weak in the animal, no matter how powerful the enemy before it can use their wings to defend their own chickens; a tiger is a ferocious beast, but when he plays with the little tiger, can achieve great patience. This love for children is something every mother can do. And parents can do well at that point. But in children really have a sense of independence, parents must understand the childrens growth, parents are difficult to achieve love we will see this phenomenon, when the children once independent, parents will say: this child is too stubborn! The child is so disobedient. Actually, children need to grow up.! To grow up according to his own will, the childs will and parents will begin to contradict, and must learn to understand the needs of childrens growth. Most of us are facing such a situation, a few days before the health care hospital doctor we to do physical examination Montessori kindergarten children. The children are free, that is in accordance with th