学会人际交往 提高协调能力（Learn interpersonal communication to improve coordination ability）.doc

学会人际交往 提高协调能力（Learn interpersonal communication to improve coordination ability） Everyone cant live without normal communication In 1938, the government of Pennsylvania accidentally discovered Anna, a 5-year-old girl, in a farmers home. When she was born, her mother left her alone in the dark room upstairs, giving her only the milk she could keep alive every day, and not contacting her. When local officials found her, she was blind and deaf, unable to speak, laugh, walk, and chew. The story tells people that the loss of a persons chances of communication can have a damaging effect on his psychology. Maybe some students say that the story above tells the story of a child, when a person grows up and doesnt associate with others, and is carefree and carefree, isnt it pleasant? So lets take a look at a psychological experiment. In the United States, a psychologist has done a study of the effects of loneliness in Princeton university. He asked some college students to live in a secluded and quiet enclosure, isolated from others. There are all kinds of food in it, free to eat, drink, sleep, but not to interact with anyone, nor to read any books. A candidate can earn a handsome reward by living in the laboratory for four days. The examinees were at ease at the beginning, but two days later all the examinees started banging on the wall to ask for it. When they return to the world, they all have dementia, numbness, and the coordination and flexibility of their movements are greatly reduced, and they are fully recovered after a period of time. The experiment tells us a truth: once a person from the social group, lost the social interaction, the feelings of loneliness and fear, bring damage to peoples mental health. Therefore, students should understand that people need to interact as if they need to eat, drink and sleep. Communication plays a vital role in the physical and mental health of each of us. Therefore, some people call interpersonal communication the indispensable