跨文化交际第一版.pptxVIP

;;;The meaning of marriage;How would I say mine eyes be blessed made. 该如何表达，何其幸运 My looking on thee in the living day. 明亮的双眼，能够在灿烂白昼中将你凝望 Of all days are nights to see till I see thee. 不能将你遗忘，则生命沉入永夜 The night days when dreams do showthee me. 若在梦中出现，永夜就将化为晴日 Will you marry me? 你愿意嫁给我吗？ ----莎士比亚《十四行诗》;Part 1. Engagement;In feudal(封建的) China, if an unmarried boy’s parents find a girl they interested in, they will find a matchmaker to make the proposal.;Once the two families agree about the matter, the bridegroom’s family will present engagement gifts to the bride’s family.;In western culture, the engagement must personally ask. Man formally proposes to the beloved woman. After she says “Yes, I do”, and then wears a diamond ring. It can be the next step to get married;Part 2.Main tone;The Red;The main tone（色调） of a western wedding is white.At the western wedding , the bride usually wears a white wedding gown, which on behalf of the holy and faith. The brides bouquet（捧花） and surrounding environment are also white .;Part 3.Wedding Location;In China, people always hold a lively wedding, inviting many friends and relatives, so the location of the wedding is generally selected in accessible, spacious （宽敞的）courtyard（庭院） or the hotel.;Western wedding highlights solemnity（庄重） and holy, so weddings are usually held in a church .Weddings are well organized, but relatively speaking, not as lively as weddings in China.;;Part 4.Wedding Dress;A typical traditional Chinese wedding costume is that the bride wears a chaplet and official robes（凤冠霞帔）,and the groom wears a champion robes（状元服）. Now due to the influence of Western countries, more and more Chinese people have accepted the white wedding dress. But the bride usually wears a white wedding dress during the wedding, and then put on the red or other more festive color dress.;The bride will wear a white bridal gown and holding a bouquet. The groom usually dresses the Black Tuxedo Suit with a white sh