夸孩子少用你真棒,教你如何夸孩子（Children less exaggerated, you are awesome, teach you how to praise the child）.docVIP

夸孩子少用你真棒,教你如何夸孩子（Children less exaggerated, you are awesome, teach you how to praise the child） [school] parenting children less exaggerated, you are awesome, teach you how to praise the child The best-selling childrens book the child, give me your hand, on the recognition of the child have a very appropriate analogy: praise, like penicillin, must not be free to use. The use of potent drugs have a certain standard, the need for caution, including standard time and dose, because it may cause allergic reactions. 1. do not boast all specific praise Baby well, this is really a praise for parents. In the eyes of parents, children grow up in every detail is amazing and praise -- baby will smile, baby will turn over, the baby will jump, baby talk...... It is in this constant surprise, parents have become accustomed to over the child to say awesome!, good! this evaluation, even a gentle ah is filled with admiration tone. Praise parents casually, cant be aware of the negative impact brought about, until one day, found that children become afraid of failure, can not withstand the slightest frustration Always a general recognition of the child, for example, you are awesome, will let the children know what to do. Maybe the child is the end of a meal, the mother and the jubilant said good boy, you are awesome, as told him thank you help mother duanfan, mother is very happy. Targeted specific praise will make children more easy to understand, and know what to do in the future, how to 2. try not to boast boast clever Youre smart! -- a comment the parents preferred. The parents of the children of every progress if you are using smart to define, let the children feel that only good grades are equated with smart, he will become a conceit rather than confidence, on the other hand, they face the challenges will take to avoid, because do not want to appear inconsistent with the wise the results of Researchers in the United States for kindergarten children to solve some problems, then, f