对和平型人格的建议（Advice on a peaceful personality）.doc

对和平型人格的建议（Advice on a peaceful personality） Try an ordinary, repetitive, boring job. It doesnt mean youre ordinary. Challenging work is just as important as ordinary work. Concentrate on what is happening in the present; Two, do not always compare with others, it is a breeding ground for inferiority and jealousy, and do not always pay attention to others have, how can I not?; Three, dont always bring the topic to yourself. How am I? I think....... I like, pay more attention to other people and objective facts; Four, dont focus too much on meaning and vision. Many people only need specific detail and process guidance, not what you think is a deep vision; Five, dont try and deep pain mining staff and colleagues, there are a lot of people do not love too deep, please respect the different personality, different attention boundaries, work just to reach the goal, rather than personal depth exchange; Six, spiritual growth is very good, but always provided spiritual growth, has hinted that he is not perfect, please respect the current stage, respect others may not be so concerned about the soul, not others too superficial, you are too deep; Seven, money and fame is meaningful, dont always dream those meaningful things, miss those things that really matter, perhaps what is common, not your fantasy, but this is real; Eight, do not always feel that they are not good enough, as well as others, every day at least 30 self affirmation words, I did it, I did very well.! Nine, you always concern others deny you, without any doubt, they do not care about others, this filter is brought about by the deeper inferiority, when receiving from others and your own negative comments, ask yourself: really? Ten, if you cant get your ideal or write down the depth of vision, others cant understand, dont expect others will like you spend a lot of time to see, need refinement and decomposition into operation target, may break out a bit sour, but dont break out, you will be fantasy. 1, a daily writ