人格心理学的经典语言（The classic language of personality psychology）.docVIP

人格心理学的经典语言（The classic language of personality psychology） The classic language of personality psychology 1. celibacy may have its convenience and may be enjoyable for some time, but if one cannot transcend this lifestyle, it will lead to a serious lag in the development of emotions and personal satisfaction. - Erickson 2. in short, parents is not an easy thing, in our society, while raising a child is one of the most important things we face, but the lack of training in this regard, on what people can raise children, how to raise children are not required, as a result, many children lack a sense of personal value and they are afraid of their parents, dont know how to get along with them, they worry about being parents unfairly punished because they dont understand, they dont feel safe and does not adapt, they are eager to warm, they need the support, but not to. The children were perplexed, frightened, and anxious. - Karen 3. the key to embracing freedom is spontaneity - experiencing and expressing our true desires. When we know what we want to do, not what others expect us to do, we express our inner feelings. - Fromm 4., we are individuals, responsible for our actions, and finding the meaning of our lives. It is these ideas that make many people feel afraid, and religion allows them to escape this fear. Thus, as some people associate themselves with powerful political and social forces, anxiety and insecurity make certain people turn to religion...... --- Fromm 5. adult attachment types are divided into 1) a safe adult, they are easy to get along with and trust each other (both believe in themselves and believe in others); 2), avoidant adults, they suspected that the love of his people, afraid too close to them from getting hurt. They are also afraid of feelings of separation (believing in themselves and not believing in others). Not afraid of being abandoned, but afraid of intimacy; 3), anxiety - contradictions of the adults, their mates to love the lack of secu