认识自我-乔韩窗口理论（Self realization window theory）.docVIP

认识自我-乔韩窗口理论（Self realization window theory） Maybe too high a dream, Ill never get there. Perhaps too humble tolerance, I can never do it. But this is me, though imperfect, brave and genuinely exhausted. I hope you can better understand yourself, accept yourself, love yourself, and do not give up efforts at any time. Here is a theory and this theory corresponds to the understanding of self suggestions and methods: Qiao Han window theory. American psychologist Jone and Hary put forward the window theory about mans self cognition, which is called Qiao Han window theory. They think that peoples understanding of themselves is a process of continuous exploration. Because each persons self has four parts: The open self, that is, the transparent and true self, is very well understood and understood by others; Blind self. Others see clearly, but they do not understand; The secret self is part of what you know but nobody else knows; The unknown self is the latent part that other people and oneself do not understand, and can be stimulated by some opportunities. By sharing the secret self with others, through the feedback of others to reduce the blind self, people will know more about themselves and be more objective. Two, the three channels of self understanding 1, know yourself from my relationship with people: what is the standard of comparison with others? People in society, people interact with people, others is a mirror reflecting their self, and others contacts, is an important source of personal self-awareness. Know yourself through others. The writer Su Shi wrote: I do not know the true face of Mount Lu, just because in the mountains. Sometimes it is difficult to know yourself, in general, Standers-by see more than gamesters., around the people of our attitude and evaluation can help us understand and know yourself. We should respect other peoples attitudes and evaluations, and analyze them calmly. We can neither follow blindly nor ignore the attitudes and opinions of