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小编给你一个美联英语官方免费试听课申请链接： /test/waijiao.aspx?tid=16-73675-0 美联英语提供：你才能掌控自己的人生 When living out our daily lives, it’s often easy to blame the world for our problems.While it’s true that there are things in the outside world we can’t control, the biggest difference between two people is simply their reaction towards it. Having understood this for a while, I’ve often asked the question, “How?” 日常生活中，我们常常容易把问题归咎于外部原因。虽然我们的确无法控制外界一些事情，但人与人之间最大的区别是他们对事情的反应。明白这个道理一段时间后，我经常问：“怎么做呢？” How is it possible to change your reaction to a particular event or situation? 怎么做才能改变你对某件事或某个情况的反应呢？ Why should you stop complaining? Here are three reasons that I believe—if you truly understand them—will help you move forward and live a less stressful life: 为什么你应该停止抱怨？这里有三个我相信的原因——如果你能真正理解它们的话——会帮你进步，生活压力也会变小： 1. The world owes you nothing 1. 世界不欠你什么 The world really does have nothing to do with you or anyone else. The planet will continue to exist without you on it, which—as depressing as it sounds—should also provide you with a first glimpse of the reality of what your life should truly be about. 世界真的与你或任何人无关。地球没你还是会转——这听起来令人沮丧——还会让你首先看到生活的现实。 Through this, questions start to emerge such as: “If the world is irrelevant, who’s in charge of my life?” And, “What happens to my life from this point forward?” 明白了这个，疑问开始出现，比如“如果世界与我无关，那谁掌控我的生活？”，以及“从这一刻开始，我的生活会怎样？” You suddenly start to realize that while we were nurtured and looked after as kids, this really isn’t the case once we’re an adult. The world doesn’t provide us with the same blanket of comfort as our carers once did, which only means one thing: It’s up to us to provide that blanket for ourselves and no one else. Which brings me on to the second reason… 你突然意识到，我们孩童时被培养和照顾，但成年后就不一样了。世界不像照顾我们的人一样给我们提供同样舒适的环境，这意味着一件事：我们给自己提供那种舒适，而不是其他人。这让我想到第二个原因…… 2. You are in charge of your own life 2. 你掌控自己的生活 If you look back at your own life, you’ll begin to realize that everything you have ever done up to the present moment was all a result of the dec