读书笔记 沉奇岚《那个姐姐教我们的事》（Reading notes, Shen Lan, that sister taught us.）.docVIP

读书笔记 沉奇岚《那个姐姐教我们的事》（Reading notes, Shen Lan, that sister taught us.） To be independent means to read, to work, to support myself, and to be responsible for myself. One faces all the loneliness, one solves all the problems, one takes all the choices. Have you ever had any experience like this? What you once wanted most was easily taken by others, and she or he said it was not what they wanted. Thats true. But dont be jealous of them, because you have your life, and you write it for yourself. Every day can be a beautiful chapter. Thats great, dear. You have the right to choose. Its the greatest happiness of our generation. But there is a price to choose from, to give up the rest of the world. This is the pain we must face. Often because of difficulties, so confused. People are always hesitant and worried: lose what they have become accustomed to, so do not dare to pursue what you can have. There is another possibility in the world that will last forever. The other one in the world, Im always calling for me. I must do it well before I run to that possibility. I am worthy of myself for every moment. A dream life is not cold, but only a dream life can be a problem Before you try, find an excuse to negate your idea. What is it? I call it cowardice. That you are not very love yourself. You read a book you do not love, because that is not your own choice; you dont love PubMed, dont say what postgraduate education is a failure, if the graduate exam is very simple, you still hesitate? You are not afraid of hard, is afraid of failure. You want to change your destiny by going to graduate school or going abroad, but you want to think about it, and I dont think any of it is insured No choice, every day, but analysis, then the dream is always unreachable Art and writing are nothing useful. If you dont like it, youd better not touch it. If you do not face up to the real yourself, such as that, then no matter who you are with, the result will not be pleasant. Why do you depend on s