批评为什么不管用（Why criticism doesnt work）.docVIP

批评为什么不管用（Why criticism doesnt work） Why criticism doesnt work? When a child makes a mistake, God forgives him. The reason why parents never forgive their children is probably because they are too far from god! Everyone makes mistakes, but in reality, only children who make mistakes can be more vulnerable to criticism. Why? Because children often make mistakes Incorrect！ Because the child is small, do not understand things, easy to make mistakes? Incorrect！ Because our parents always follow the childrens eyes. Yes! All childrens manners are basically out of the reach of their parents. As soon as she fell on the floor carelessly, the mother would say, how can you be so careless?! If the exam results are not satisfactory, there will be a voice sounded: you see how the exam so bad.. If accidentally lost something, there will be a voice said: how do you always absent-minded. Just hit the child, has not come out from the sad, painful grievances, even humiliating emotions, often with a storm of criticism, the heart I feel unhappy, but not what way! But can only silently silently, bold may top words, but it will provoke scolding, really wronged you may cry. Oh This can be even worse, parents will shout cry what cry.! Theres nothing to cry about! And have you ever thought about it? Why do you always criticize from morning till night? Why do you often criticize the same question? Is it because the child is disobedient? Not sensible? Theres too much trouble Have you ever wondered why your criticism didnt work? Some people sigh that life is difficult! Its harder to be a woman! I think you must say now that its harder to be a mother than to be a mother! Every day I get to the front to subscribe to magazines and newspapers. There is an officer on duty who is an old lady and her granddaughter often comes here after school. One day, as usual, I got the newspaper and went in and saw the little girl lying on the desk writing her homework. The old lady was teaching her little granddau