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招人厌？问题可能出在这儿！ Everyone strives to be a great person, kind, caring, and compassionate. But for some people, thats not always the case. There are many behaviors or bad habits that people have that make them seem unattractive, annoying, or someone that no one wants to be around with. A few of these harmful characteristics are offered for you below, and if you happen to realize that you embody any of them – quit! You might find your circle of friends grow once you do. 每个人都试着努力成为一个更好的人，变得善良、有爱而有同情心。但是对于有些人，事实却不遂人愿。他们身上很多行为或者坏习惯都使他们没吸引力、招人厌，甚至没人愿意和他们相处。下文就列出了一系列不招人待见的性格特点，如果你发现自己占了几条，那就赶紧戒了吧！一旦抛弃这些坏习惯，你会发现你的朋友又回来了。 1. You are Self-Absorbed你自私自利自我中心 Many people do this without realizing it. You focus solely on yourself, talk only about yourself, and often dont care what others around you have to say. You think youre the only one who matters. If this is you, its time to change. No one wants to be a friend with someone who only cares about themselves. 这个毛病很多人都有，而且他们都不自知。你的关注点永远只集中在自己身上，话题总是围绕着自己，从来都没留意别人在说什么。你总以为“我”才是唯一重要的。如果这条中了，那就快改了吧。没人想跟一个只有自我的人做朋友的。 2. You Focus on Outer Beauty, Ignoring Whats Inside你太注重外表，忽略内在 Surprisingly, true beauty comes from within your heart, body, and soul. Your physical appearance isnt what should matter, but people with unattractive behaviors think that outer beauty is all that matters. Take a look in the mirror – deep within yourself – and you might see what lies beneath. An ugly person. Unless you change your way of thinking. 让你意外的事实是：真正的美总是来自于你的内心、身体和灵魂。一个人的外貌其实不那么重要，但是你这种肤浅的人却认为外在美就是一切。照照镜子吧！透过华丽的外表你也许能看到你的本质——一个内在丑陋的人。所以赶快改变这种想法吧。 3. You are Always in Competition你总要和周围的人比 Are you the person who has to be better than everyone else, see more, do more? If so, youre an unattractive person. You should be more caring towards your friends, and let them have their moment. If they overcame their fear of heights and climbed 10 feet in the air, don’t say, “That’s all? Ive climbed 30 feet!” Instead say, “Wow! That’s awesome. Im really proud of you.”