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Men are From MarsWomen are from Venus John Gray Theories What Do You Think? Men and women are different in many ways, especially in the way they think. In his book, “What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Women” Dr. James Dobson relates an interesting theory about this differences. A man deals with each circle as he is required to. They do not overlap, but remain entirely separate from one another. If he is watching a ball game on TV and the children come in screaming, he may not notice them because he is watching TV. When the game is over the circle is closed. He may pay bills and even discuss then with his wife, but when he has finished, that circle is closed. Work Money Children Health Food meetings transportation On the other hand woman deals with her life much differently She can comfort a child with a cut knee while she makes dinner and may even be on the phone at the same time. She may pay the bills and be thinking about which child needs new shoes or the refreshment she must take to the PTA meeting. A woman will think of many things at once. If this were to be shown, it would look like the above diagram. work health children money transportation food A man would know that in order to gain his wife’s attention, he needs to apologize or at least discuss problems. The wife would understand that her husband is not trying to hurt her feelings, he simply deals with things in a different way. Both people need to work together to understand one another and create a quality relationship. Values Men like to offer solutions directly to women, when a problem arises, while women, offer unsolicited advice. When men do this, it invalidates the women’s feelings, and men do not like to be “told what to do”, especially if they didn’t ask for advice. Stress Men tend to pull away and silently think about what’s bothering them, Going into their “cave” Women feel an instinctive need to talk about what’s bothering them. Motivation Men feel motivated when