幸福生活与人生目标1.pptVIP

体察他人 体恤他人 体谅他人 善解人意… 特征： * Interaction Existence Action Reproduction * Harmony Progress When Roles Are Respected * Principle of Interaction in Ethics Golden Rule: Treat others as one would want to be treated * Harmonious Interaction Centers on a Higher Purpose * Four Position Base for Interaction * Second Life Goal – Loving Relationships Family * Second Life Goal – Loving Relationships Family * Goals of Education 1. Mature character 2. Ethical loving relationships 3. Productive citizens * Process of Growth Seed ? Sprout ? Growing sapling ? Mature tree with fruit Formation ? Growth ? Completion * Growth in Nature - Automatic Seed:Contains the design of the plant ?Sun, Water Nutrients ? Mature Tree:Manifests the design within the seed * Growth of Human Character - Requires Responsibility Inborn: value potential for love ?Fulfillment of Personal Responsibility? Mature Character: Realizes full potential for love value * Responsibility Freedom Freedom without responsibility ? Corruption loss of freedom Responsibility without freedom ? Frustration rebellion * “ Righteousness in the heart… beauty in the character… Harmony in the home… order in the nation… peace in the world.” The Great Learning * Rights Privileges Depend on Responsibility ? Inheriting wealth ? Getting a degree ? Marriage ? Parenthood * Conscience - Moral Compass Guides efforts to fulfill one’s responsibility ? Points toward goodness ? Urges living to benefit others * Self-Mastery Character Good Character ? Mind(Conscience) ? Body(Physical Desires) Bad Character ? Body(Physical Desires) ? Mind(Conscience) * First Life Goal — Mature Character * Heart D Core of Character Pursues true love * Maturity of Character Full measure of all virtues Goal of each person’s innermost nature “ 管理人类行为的法则并非由人发明创造的 ...而是宇宙法则在人际关系中的反映 ...每个文明的社会必定有这些法则交织于其中才得以形成。” 据: 斯蒂芬·科维, Principle-Centered Leadership 接受、回应、听从 给予、发动、主管 主体角色 对象角色 需要两个角色：主体和对象 遵循宇宙互动法则：授和受 主体 受