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2014期待新改变请先改变你的生活态度 Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us. We’ve all heard about the power of our attitude, and that it’s our attitude that determines how much we succeed in life. 我们对生活的态度决定了生活对我们的态度。我们都听说过我们的态度所产生的力量，我们的态度决定了我们的人生有多成功。 If you look around you, you will see that people with a positive attitude enjoy life more and are generally happier and more successful than those who walk around grumpy and pessimistic. Our attitude is the driving force in our lives—it can either push you to do great things or pull you down to your demise. 如果你看看你的周围，你会发现持积极态度的人更享受生活，大体上比那些脾气暴躁又悲观的人也更幸福更成功。我们的态度是我们生活的驱动力，我们的态度可以推动我们去做伟大的事情抑或让自己碌碌无为沉寂一生。 All the things that you have been through, all the people you have met and interacted with can have an impact on your attitude. If you think that all these factors have molded you into a person with a poor attitude towards life, there is no need to worry as there is always an opportunity for change. Let me share with you how I did it. 你经历过的所有事情、见过和交流过的所有人都会影响你的态度。如果你认为所有这些因素造就你的生活态度不好，无需担心，总会有改变生活态度的机会。让我和你分享一下我是如何做到的。 1. Identify and understand what you want to change 确定并了解你自己想改变什么 The first step towards change is clearly understanding what needs to be changed. Setting clear goals is the key to success in any endeavor. When it comes to changing your attitude, you need to do an honest and in-depth self-evaluation so you could point out exactly which of your traits need to be improved or totally changed. 改变的第一步是清楚了解自己所需改变之处。设定明确目标是努力成功的关键。改变你的态度，需要你做一个诚实而又深入的自我评价，你能指出具体哪些特质需要做出改进或需要做出彻底改变。 2. Look for a role model 给自己找个榜样 We all need to know that what we’re trying to accomplish can in fact be achieved; that we can be more optimistic, more social or more patient. Find someone who has the kind of attitude that you want to have, and let his or her life give you inspiration and encouragement to move beyond your temporary failures in your journey towards becoming a better person. 我们都需要知道：我们试着去完成的事情真的可以实现，我们会变得更乐观，更会