一位爸爸写给女儿信.doc

一位爸爸写给女儿的信：不要讨好男人(双语) 　　编辑点评：如果说女儿是爸爸上辈子的情人，那么爸爸这辈子定会尽全力的保护女孩儿，下面是一位爸爸写给自己宝贝女儿的信，关于女儿未来的幸福，爸爸有话想说。 一位爸爸写给女儿的信：关于你未来的那个他 　　Dear Cutie-Pie, 　　我的宝贝小甜心： 　　Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was How to keep him interested. 　　最近我与你妈妈准备在谷歌上搜一个答案。还没输完整个问题，谷歌就显示了一列世界上最常见的搜索。其中排在第一的是“怎么能让他一直对我感兴趣”。 　　It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior。 　　这让我有点震惊。我浏览了无数相关的论文，这些文章都是关于女孩如何性感保持美丽，什么时候给他送上一杯啤酒与三明治，以及如何让他觉得聪明与有优越感。 　　And I got angry。 　　我怒了。 　　Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to keep him interested. 　　亲爱的宝贝，你从来，完全都不需要，“让他一直对你感兴趣。” 　　Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul -- in that unshakeable place that isn0#39;t rattled by rejection and loss and ego -- that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day。) 　　亲爱的，你唯一的任务就是不断去了解自己的灵魂——你不该让拒绝、失去与自我占据那个不可撼动的领域——这样你才值得被喜欢。(如果你还能知道每个人都值得被喜欢，那么你的人生已经基本赢了。改天我会在另一封信里再写这部分。) 　　If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you。 　　如果你相信自己的价值，那么你的魅力就能用最重要的这句话来形容：你会吸引有能力去爱你同时也想花一辈子时间好好爱你的男生。 　　Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesnt need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting。 　　亲爱的，我想告诉你，不用刻意在男生面前保持新鲜感，他会知道你的好与魅力所在。 　　I don0#39;t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table -- as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then cant stop looking。 　　我不介意他吃饭时会不会把手放桌子上——只要他会把注意力放在你身上，哪怕你大笑时鼻子都发出了怪声，还是止不住的一直