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4/8/13 打印：成长教育：从恋爱开始- 21英语 Romance is a tricky lesson 成 长教 育 ：从恋爱开始 w w w .i2 1 st .cn BY 鱼遨游 from 21st Century Published 2013-04-08 导读：大学教给每一个学生的不仅仅是专业知识，更多的 是一种成长教育。步入大学校园，你要亲自打理人际关 系、情感以及生活的方方面面，一切先从恋爱这一课开始 吧！ Zhou Qifei, 1 9, a freshman English maj or at Beij ing Technology and Business Univ ersity , is struggling with more than j ust fitting into her new env ironment on c ampus. 19岁周琪菲 （音译）是就读于北京工商大学英语专业的大 大学生活教给每个人的不仅是知识，更多的是一种成长教 一新生，除了努力适应校园新环境外，她似乎有更多的烦 育。你要亲自打理人际关系、情感以及生活等方面，这一 心事要解决。 切先从恋爱这一课开始吧！ On V alentine’s Day an upperclassman she had only rec ently met unex pectedly gav e her a rose and hinted that he would like her to b e his girlfriend. The romantic mov e c onfused Zhou . 情人节那天，她意外地收到了刚认识不久的学长送来的玫瑰，这是个求爱信号。这样浪漫的举动却令周琪菲感到 困惑。 “It’s really agitating me . I’m not ready to say y es now, but I also don’t want to lose his friendship,” she said. “I don’t know how to deal with this.” “这让我很纠结。我没准备好接受他的追求，但我又不想失去这个朋友，”她说， “我真不知该怎么办。” But Zhou isn’t alone with her worries. A rec ent surv ey released by My c os Group, a c onsultancy , rev eals that nearly 3 0 perc ent of first-y ear students at Chinese univ ersities are perplex ed when it c omes to romantic relationships. A b out half of the respondents stated a “lacking ab ility to c ommunic ate” as a maj or ob stacle to romantic relationships. 为情感而焦虑的不止周琪菲一人。根据麦可思咨询公司最近的一项调查显示，中国30%的大学新生遭遇恋爱难题。 近一半的受访者表示在恋情中的主要绊脚石是 “不善沟通”。 Lei Wuming, a professor in psy chology at Wuhan Univ ersity of Technology , ex plained that students are ov erwhelmed by