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The Art of Loving - [Erich Fromm]Part A常人对爱的误解一：爱等同于外在的财富、地位、权力、美貌、好体型、性格魅力、华饰等。As a matter of fact, what most people in our culture mean by being lovable is essentially a mixture between being popular and having sex appeal. Most people see the problem of love primarily as that of being loved, rather than that of loving, of ones capacity to love.常人对爱的误解二：爱关乎对象【object being loved】，不关乎能力【capacity to love】。A second premise behind the attitude that there is nothing to be learned about love is the assumption that the problem of love is the problem of an object? not the problem of a faculty.解释这一现象背后