男女交流方式的差异---FromGUCAS课堂.pptVIP

Venus Women are from Men are from Mars 何万通 1 1.Differences between the sexes 2.What make the differences? 3.We need mutual-understanding 4.jokes Communication 2 1.Differences Compartmentally VS Globally works friend sex hobby men works clothes romance friend family women 3 1.Differences Result VS Detail Two of my best friends fell in love Men(report) Women(rapport) My friends Michael and Michelle……… Michael and his ex-girlfriend broken up three months ago…… One month ago, some friends of mine had a buffet at Origus, where michael and Michelle first met……… I cannot believe they fall in love at the first sight…… result detail detail Few or no details result 4 1.Differences Solving VS Sharing Gather information, share complaints Give information, solve problems 5 1.Differences Explicit VS Implicit have been taught since childhood to use “hint language” when asking for something she wants or needs. Women Unfortunately, men do not often get the hints. They focus attention on the context of the message rather than hidden meanings. men 6 1.Differences Dominance VS Consensus When women get together, they seek the input of the other women present and make decisions based on the wishes of all. Women Status is everything . conversation is the way you negotiate your status in the group. men 7 1.Differences between the sexes 2.What make the differences? 3.We need mutual-understanding 4.jokes Communication 8 2.What make the differences Division of labor Imagine: Tens of thousands ago, ancient men went out hunting, while women were waiting in the cave with their children. 9 2.What make the differences Division of labor Hunter exhausted at the end of day keep silent keep silent sense of direction Strong to fight 10 2.What make the differences Division of labor Collector communicate with other women talkative, like shopping cooking nurturing sewing Gathering wild fruit 11 1.Differences between the sexes 2.What make the differences? 3.We need mutua