成功婚姻的基本元素.docVIP

成功婚姻的基本元素 简介 婚姻是一个重大承诺，在选择结婚伴侣时，有很多需要考虑的因素。比如：相似度，性格，吸引力等等。此文探讨了五大成功婚姻的基本元素。 婚姻是一个重大承诺，在选择结婚伴侣时，有很多需要考虑的因素。比如：相似度，性格，吸引力等等。相似度研究已经证实，般配的夫妻是那些在价值观、兴趣、态度等领域是相似的夫妻。伴侣间相似度越高，关系越积极正面。性格特征相似度明显不是决定一段 成功关系的唯一因素。某些性格特征与 婚姻关系的成功有密切关系，带有这些性格特征的人往往拥有成功的婚姻关系。人们发现焦虑、消极、神经质等性格特征会为婚姻带来麻烦以及随后相应的不满。随着时间流逝，爱情慢慢消失，伴侣的消极会导致幻灭。基本上，不会始终表现出恐惧、气愤、盛怒、消极、不安、焦虑等消极情绪的夫妻最快乐。性随着 婚姻生活的发展，夫妻间性的互动会减少。有调查显示将近一半的已婚夫妇每周做爱两次，与此对比，单身的人的做爱频率要高出很多。性是亲密关系中一个非常重要的因素，它发生的频率越低，婚姻触礁的可能性越高。爱为错误的理由结婚是人一生中能做的最坏的决定。任何并非建立在爱情基础上的 婚姻注定失败。无论对男人还是对女人而言，满意度与意味着爱的行为——一起大笑、分享感受等等，有着密切关系。爱是幸福婚姻的关键元素。(译者注：compassionate 没有想到合适的词，所以漏掉没翻，请达人赐教^^)家务的不公平分配在男女都有工作的情况下，必须有家务的公平分配。对于两人中任何一个人而言，单独承担公务和家事都是艰难的。如果其中任何一方不配合，就会引发 婚姻冲突。 Basic Elements Of A Successful Marriage(原文标题) Marriage is a big commitment and there are a lot of factors that should be taken into consideration while choosing a marital partner. For example: similarity, personality, attraction etc. Similarity:Studies have proved that compatible couples are those who are similar on grounds such as- values, interests, attitude etc. Greater the similarity between the partners more positive the relationship. Personality characteristics:Similarity is obviously not the only factor that determines a successful relationship. There are also certain personality traits that are related to marital success and people who possess these traits usually have successful marriages. Traits such as anxiety, negativity, neuroticism etc have been found to bring problems in a marriage and subsequent dissatisfaction. Negativism in a spouse leads to disillusionment over time as love declines. Basically, couples are happiest in a liaison in which the spouse does not show consistent negative emotions like- fear, anger, rage, insecurity, anxiety etc. Sex:As a marriage progresses the sexual interaction between couples decreases. A survey suggests that almost half of the married couples have sex only twice a week as compared to their single counterparts, who tend to h